Sex with your Ex? This question comes up every once in a while. Imagine the following: Your ex and you were together on and off for like 7 years and had a kid and were going to get married but you broke it off … looong story.. She’s been texting alot of late and wanting you to come over and have sex. She says she is lonely. And you are lonely too … Is it worth getting hat relationship refurbished with her? It’s a funny and scary feeling all at once. She knows you. She says, she just wants to have sex. And you know her. she wants more. Should you do it?
The opinions on that issue vary from avoiding a psychotic ex on your hands (advise: to go and find yourself a hooker), to good idea! Some may say: “You’ve got history of a relationship. it can never be just sex!” Others think: “Casual sex with an ex? That works!”
And indeed. for some people it works, for others it doesn’t. You should know her well enough to determine whether it will work for you or not. If you already have doubts whether or not you are or she is able to handle it, don’t do it. But otherwise it will be a lifetime experience. You may find out how deep your feelings still are emotionally, how much attached you still are to your her even though you only wanted to have sex with your ex.